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What I Wish I Knew At Age 14

Here's everything everyone wish they knew at the age of 14. If it's good advice, hit the upvote button. The number next to it indicates the age the author wrote it at. Feel like there's something missing? Add a new message!



Hey 14 year old, if you know you're wrong, apologize
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Hey 14 year old, stop focusing on what others think of you. The only person you should be comparing yourself to, is yourself.
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Hey 14 year old, you likely won't remember any of the classes in high school, only the friends you made and the weird things you did together.
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Hey 14 year old, High school is really small. The world is really big. Don't take what happens there too seriously, even if you feel you're trapped.
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Hey 14 year old, give your mom a break once in a while, or it's going to be a long couple of years
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Hey 14 year old, Don't be afraid of your feelings and emotions. Even if everyone is trying to be cool, you should always embrace all that's going on inside of you.
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Hey 14 year old, your horrific acne will not last forever. I promise!
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Hey 14 year old, girls like when you talk to them! Just open your mouth and talk to her like you talk to your friends. Don't be cool, just be relaxed.
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Hey 14 year old, At this age, you are furious, you wanna do everything, perfectly , quickly, you think time is running out. I just want you to know that it's okay, you are very young, take your time, grow yourself, it's okay.
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Hey 14 year old, don't be afraid to make mistakes and learn. The thing about life is try.
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Hey 14 year old, It’s okay to cry if you need to. Sometimes, all you need is a good cry to just relive stress.
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Hey 14 year old, don't be so hard on yourself, it will get easier. I PROMISE!
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Hey 14 year old, Friends (and boyfriends/girlfriends) will come and go, and sometimes that will be sad. But you will always have the memories. Focus on the good ones and move forward with your new friends!
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Hey 14 year old, Slow tf down , don’t rush it u got time , not everything’s gotta happen rn
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Hey 14 year old, Learn to type faster. (You can find online apps and websites for this.) Being able to type quickly will save you many hours when you are writing, and free you to think about your writing instead of your typing.
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Hey 14 year old, When someone asks you out, and you say no, Just stick with it. Don't pity date people. Because when you do, they start to manipulate you; think you like them. All they care about is the title claiming you as theirs. Don't pity date, it sucks.
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Hey 14 year old, No one can be a better you than you. Don't change yourself
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Hey 14 year old, when you are not at home, live your best life. forget what is at home for just that little bit and be free.
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Hey 14 year old, It really, truly doesn't matter what other people think of you. Just do your thing.
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Hey 14 year old, Don't be afraid of your feelings. Embrace them, and even if something feels weird, get to know yourself and why you're feeling this particular way. Once you know yourself and get comfortable with yourself, things get a lot easier.
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Hey 14 year old, Never be ashamed of telling someone what you feel
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Hey 14 year old, Don't delay getting those braces
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Hey 14 year old, don't act like your better then everyone
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Hey 14 year old, Tell that girl or boy you like them. Don't be afraid to admit your feelings to them. Who knows, maybe they'll like you back?
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Hey 14 year old, dont get a boyfriend at this age, you are not mature enough for that just dont do it
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Hey 14 year old, just be you. Don't worry about what others think, you are unique take your chance and do your things. You are the most valuable person, you have your time to figure out what you're gonna do after
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Hey 14 year old, The most important truth is that no one magically knows what they are doing in life. Not kids, not teenagers, not adults. Not you. Be humble, but don't take any guff. We're all doing the best we can with what we have, including you!
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Hey 14 year old, Most of the people you meet now you’ll never see again after high school so enjoy the moments you guys have together and MAKE PICTURES
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Hey 14 year old, Who cares what they think! Be you!
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Hey 14 year old, Always do the best that you can. Whether it is in school, sports, being a son/daughter, brother/sister or anything else. If you don't, you will regret it one day.
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