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What I Wish I Knew At Age 14

Here's everything everyone wish they knew at the age of 14. If it's good advice, hit the upvote button. The number next to it indicates the age the author wrote it at. Feel like there's something missing? Add a new message!



Hey 14 year old, That older guy or woman you met online that’s way to old for you age... from personal experience stop messaging them and block them and tell your parents or legal guardian! Your older “boyfriend/girlfriend” does not love you!! They are predators
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Hey 14 year old, your Just starting high school you have a lot of questions it seems scary it's not face your fear show high school who you are try your best don't give up no matter how hard it is keep going don't be afraid to drop toxic people go meet new people
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Hey 14 year old, high school isn't a popularity contest if your fat skinny gay bi black anything don't let popularity defined who you are your beautiful your you that's all that matters live your life make friends be kind because someone out there wants to be besties
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Hey 14 year old, you don't need a boyfriend or girlfriend to be popular just be you!! someone is out there that you're going to meet soon who is going to like being your fiend with you being you not someone they want you to be they will love you for who you are!
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Hey 14 year old, Make as many new friends as possible, highschool gets a lot easier when you have a shoulder to lean on.
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Hey 14 year old, Don’t be afraid to try new things. A potential career can come from the smallest steps.
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Hey 14 year old, listen to your mum and keep waxing your legs, by the time you turn 20 there'll be almost no hair to wax
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Hey 14 year old, if a person is telling you scary story's and you cant go to bed cause scared tell a grownup this will help you and if they told you about Momo she is NOT real
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Hey 14 year old, If you're in a circle of friends no matter how big or small it is. And u still can feel loneliness, get away from them right now!
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Hey 14 year old, Live in the moment and remember your grades don’t define you.
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Hey 14 year old, Don't spend too much time over the lessons, sometimes you need to rest.
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Hey 14 year old, if you're feeling so bad that you want to give up and quit the nightmare we call life, remember that everything happens for a reason. You might not see it right away, but trust me. You'll understand it all someday. Have patience.
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Hey 14 year old, ask for help and be friendly
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Hey 14 year old, It's okay to do what you love but always listen to your parents with all your heart.
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Hey 14 year old, You'll find your friend group, try not to let the anxiety about it keep you up at night. It's ok to be queer.
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Hey 14 year old, Life is full of surprises but for me i got it in a good way . I believe my parents are a little backwards
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Hey 14 year old, Yes
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Hey 14 year old, If you're interested in something, don't stop practicing and doing it. If your friends tell you not to do something you're really interested in, they aren't real friends.
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Hey 14 year old, Hi.
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Hey 14 year old, Luis
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Hey 14 year old, The Life is perfect
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Hey 14 year old, don’t mess with half the guys at the highschool before your freshman year.
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Hey 14 year old, Dont worry about what people say and be happy
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Hey 14 year old, know that you can learn and reach any skill you want in life with persistence and grit. Don't let your grades or teachers tell you otherwise. When I was your age I thought I could never learn Chinese. Today I speak it fluently because I studied hard.
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Hey 14 year old, Don't rely on your school or church to accurately teach you about sex or vices. Talk to a trusted adult or seek out a therapist or other professional with whom to discuss those things.
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Hey 14 year old, Even though you feel like your emotions don't matter, they do. Others indeed have problems that are maybe a bit more serious then yours. But that doesn't mean that yours are invalid! You'll only teach yourself to feel guilty when your sad.
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Hey 14 year old, The next few years probably feel pretty terrifying right now and you probably feel like you're on your own. Everyone feels like that, and although right now people won't always share that or admit it, they all feel the same.
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Hey 14 year old, High schools a scary first step, but go with the flow, don't try to force friendship on anyone, you shouldn't have to try to be friends, it will come naturally.
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Hey 14 year old, Stop listening to other people, they have NO CLUE what's going on. They don't know why they are alive, they don't even know where gravity comes from. Keep their cluelessness in perspective and discover your own path.
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Hey 14 year old, I know there's a lot of pressure to develop crushes and start "kid dating" right now. But if you're not feeling it that's ok too! There's nothing wrong with you!
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